God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
The wisdom here is the ability to have a peace while letting go of your wrongs and accepting both your regretted “yes’s” and no’s”. With courage we then move on forgiving ourselves for our participation. And with wisdom, we learn from all of the could-have’s and should-have’s.